DEAR DEIDRE: I AM a virgin at 30 and feel worthless.
I have given up on the idea of losing my virginity in a
meaningful way and my only option is to pay.
When I was 20 I had a girlfriend for six weeks but we only
went as far as kissing.
I have met girls since but had zero success.
I listen to friends and colleagues talk about their sexual
history and feel there’s a gap in my life.
Most days I watch porn based on swinger and sex parties.
I am considering going to these types of parties but for the
wrong reasons.
I feel so unattractive due to lack of experience that I am
sure no woman would want a man like me.
Would a prostitute cure my problems?
DEIDRE SAYS: No – because your problem isn’t a lack of sex but
a lack of confidence to form any sort of relationship in which to share real
passion.
You could pay for sex and still be left feeling shut out and
lonely.
The answer lies not in sex parties but in building up a
mixed social life and finding interests that absorb you.
When you feel good about yourself someone special is far
more likely to walk into your life.
Credits: Deidre Sanders
The Sun
Image: Tesh N Writings
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