DEAR DEIDRE: SEX with my cousin’s wife was absolutely
fantastic, but afterwards I felt rubbish as I know it shouldn’t have happened.
Now my cousin has broken the news to the family that she is pregnant
but she won’t reply to my texts.
She is the same age as me, 25, and I knew her as a friend of
a friend before she and my cousin met. He is 30 and they married last year.
She and I were laughing and messing around at his 30th
birthday barbecue and ended up kissing out of sight of the others.
It was like an electric shock and I could tell she felt the
same.
I tried to avoid her after that but she texted me and we
arranged to meet. We both knew where it was heading.
When we had sex it was amazing, but it all got very difficult.
My cousin almost caught us making out in their bedroom.
I decided it was getting too hot to handle and told her it
was over a couple of months ago. She didn’t take it well. She kept flirting
when she called round but I kept my distance until she called round one Sunday
when I was alone at home.
I went to shut the dogs in the kitchen because they wouldn’t
stop barking and she literally backed me into a corner in the hall.
She started kissing me and undoing my zip. Although the sex
was fantastic I asked her to leave straight after. I was so angry with myself
that I’d been too weak to turn her down.
I hadn’t seen her for nearly a month when my cousin called
round and said he had some good news, that he is going to be a father. I have
to admit I nearly choked on my dinner.
I have tried to ring and text her, but she is ignoring me
and won’t respond.
DEIDRE SAYS: There is a clear message here, that as far as she
is concerned this is her husband’s child and she is choosing not to involve
you. And that is probably a good thing all round.
She and your cousin must have been having sex around the
right time for him to believe this is his child. You just had sex once.
They are a couple and can provide a stable home to raise a
child. Hopefully she will be faithful now she is soon to be a mother.
You two just had a sexual affair, never talked about getting
together and it’s unlikely a relationship between you would work.
If it does all go wrong and she decides to go public with
the possibility that this is your child, it will take DNA tests to be sure.
If it is, then you would have a legal responsibility to help
maintain your child and I hope would be a caring dad.
Credits: Deidre Sanders
The Sun
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