THIS mum-of-two has made £20,000 in a year by charging men
to date her - as well as being treated to designer shopping sprees and a Range
Rover.
Samantha, 45, who lives in London, earns between £1,000 and
£2,000 a month from the four men she is currently dating - who she met on Seeking
Arrangement, a sugar baby website.
The part-time Pilates teacher, who's originally from Perth,
Australia, has been single for three years - since splitting from the father of
her sons, who are 24 and 18.
She became active on Seeking Arrangement two years ago -
after moving to London from the countryside - and has already banked thousands.
Speaking exclusively to Fabulous Digital, she said:
"Most of the 15 men I’ve dated work in finance and are aged from 36 to 60.
They are wealthy, some of them have been millionaires."
As well as her monthly allowance, Samantha has been treated
to a weekend in Paris, fancy Mayfair hotels, posh London dinners and designer
shopping sprees.
She said: "My most memorable date was a trip to Paris
and a boat ride along the River Seine - it was our fourth date.
"We went for the weekend, it was just so beautiful. It
was to coincide with one of his business trips, so we flew business class.
"I’ve had some amazing, fabulous dinners at Gordon
Ramsay restaurants, hotel treats in Mayfair and shopping trips.
"I’ve been taken to places like Dior, for a handbag and
sunglasses, but also high street stores.
"I was bought a Range Rover. I didn’t ask how much it
cost, that would be impolite. I needed a new car and he offered to buy me
one."
A brand new Range Rover costs between £31,600 and £83,600 -
depending on the model.
Despite cashing in on romance, Samantha insists she isn't
"materialistic".
She said: "The simpler things, like a picnic in the
park, are just as special.
"I don’t need too many gifts, I’m not that
materialistic, I prefer to receive an allowance to help with my living
expenses.
"That’s far more important, it’s less shallow. I get
about £1,000 to £2,000 every month. It depends on how much I need, it’s not a
set amount.
"I’ve made about £20,000 in total, which I mainly use
for rent on my one-bed flat and food. It costs a fortune to live in
London."
Samantha only charges from the third date, by which time
they've "broken the ice" and decided if there's a connection.
She said: "After a couple of dates, we make an
arrangement to have a monthly or weekly allowance.
"It's not the same for every person, each man's
circumstances are different. I don't demand a certain amount, we
negotiate."
Despite the money aspect, Samantha has no qualms about
sleeping with her dates - and currently has a sexual relationship with three of
the four men she's seeing.
She said: "Normally from the third or fourth date, we
will plan to have sex with a nice venue, after dinner and Champagne.
"It’s all very lovely, romantic and classy. They do
expect sex, but do men not expect sex on regular dating sites?
"They all do, whether you’re being paid or not, it
makes no difference. That’s what the ultimate destination is.
"I wouldn’t class myself as a Sugar Baby, I’d prefer to
be called a Sugar Lady.
"I’m a bit old for the baby part. I call myself Lady
Samantha, not Baby Samantha."
Samantha insists her ultimate goal is to find a life
partner, but says the last couple of years have been about having fun following
her divorce.
She said: "I would love to find a relationship, I think
that could come from one of the men I’m currently dating.
"I have been single for three years and I joined the
site because I missed the companionship of a man, and the physical side.
"I don’t want to give that up yet, I know I’m 45 but I
still love sex.
"I wasn’t ready to jump into a relationship straight
after a long-term marriage and divorce.
"My children are both adults now and I just wanted to
have a bit of fun and take some time out for me, before I start settling down
again.
"My sons don’t know about my dating life, it’s none of
their business.
"If they asked, I wouldn’t hide it but I don’t think
it’s right to volunteer unnecessary information which might cause them strange
thoughts."
Although Samantha mainly dates older men, she says she's
also batting off offers from toyboys.
She said: "I do get a lot of enquiries from a lot
younger men, aged about 20 to 22.
"I reply and say ‘thank you for your interest in
viewing my profile, I’m very flattered but you are a bit young for me’.
"A lot of younger guys like older women, probably
because we’re more direct and in touch with our own emotions.
"We’re just more worldly and wise, in touch with what
we want and more honest."
When it comes to others' opinions, Samantha isn't bothered.
She said: "If people judge me, that’s entirely their
problem, not mine. I’m having the time of my life.
"I’m going to the most amazing places, being treated
like a queen. I go to fabulous restaurants which I would never be able to
afford on my own.
"I’m not harming anybody and it’s got nothing to do with
anybody else, it’s my life.
"The calibre and class of men on Seeking Arrangement is
far superior to other dating sites, these guys are educated, intelligent,
they’re businessmen.
"I tried Plenty of Fish, Tinder and OkCupid. I had very
bad experiences.
"The men are liars, they arrange to go on a date but
don’t turn up, or get straight into the whole dirty picture routine, which is
really not my style.
"They’re intellectually just not on a par with me, I’m
educated."
(The Sun)
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