Why Women Suffer Secondary Infertility



Dr. Abayomi Ajayi
There are hundreds of thousands of couples who conceived easily when they started a family, but find it more difficult when they want number two kids. Such couples suffer from what’s called Secondary Infertility.
Admittedly, it is a condition that is hard to accept and initially a lot of people ask “Why?” or “What have we done wrong?”
There are no straightforward answers, just numerous possibilities, and in order to get a second pregnancy going, quite complex investigations and treatment may be involved. Most people believe that once a woman has had one child, she has proven herself to be fertile and therefore will have no problems conceiving again in the future. Unfortunately, this is not always the case. Secondary Infertility is a very common problem. In fact, it is so common that it accounts for as much as 60% of infertility cases. Yet, there are women who often fail to see this type of infertility as a major problem. Though secondary infertility is usually defined as the inability to conceive after one or more prior pregnancy(ies) irrespective of outcome, it commonly affects women who have successfully and naturally conceived one or more children. Millions of Nigerian couples are experiencing Secondary Infertility.
Unlike those experiencing Primary Infertility (when a childless couple is unable to conceive), couples that are affected by Secondary Infertility are much less likely to get treatment for their infertility. This is usually due to the misconception that “once you’re fertile, you’ll always be fertile”. While this false belief is often perpetuated, it is not uncommon for a couple to be told to just keep trying and that eventually it will happen.
While this may be true in some cases, in many others, advice like this only adds to the frustration and heartache experienced by a couple having fertility problems.
Reasons for Secondary Infertility tend to be the same as reasons for Primary Infertility. For instance, if since a woman was last pregnant, she or her partner has had an infection, gained some weight, or started eating fewer healthy foods. These seemingly small variances in their lives can have large repercussions on their reproductive health. 
Additionally, if it has been a few years since they last had a child, the woman’s egg quality may have begun decreasing or the man’s sperm may not be what it once was. Abnormalities with sperm and ejaculation are frequently cited as causes of Secondary Infertility.
Generally, factors, which cause Secondary Infertility, are numerous. Age is primal. For women in their late 30s and early 40s, the chance of conceiving is actually quite low.
As for Fallopian tube damage, complications during a previous pregnancy or delivery, or a recent pelvic infection can harm or block the fallopian tubes and reduce the chances of the eggs being fertilized. Polycystic ovaries may also be a common condition affecting women who have put on a significant amount of weight during their first pregnancy, increasing their body mass index above the normal range. This can interfere with regular ovulation, cause an imbalance of hormones and significantly reduce fertility.
Unless women diet back down to the weight they were when they first conceived, they will not regain their previous fertility.  Research shows that even a little weight loss will help improve your chances of conceiving.
Sperm Count
Most healthy men retain their fertility well into middle age. But any chronic illness (like diabetes or high blood pressure) can have a detrimental effect not only on the sperm count but also on the motility and structure of the sperm, both of which have a role to play in the fertility process. But there are occasions when, despite all the tests and investigations, no apparent cause can be found for Secondary Infertility. This is frustrating and upsetting, so after a year of trying (sooner if you’re mid to late 30s) you should consider active fertility treatment.
Ideally, it is always a good idea to seek out a fertility expert if you have troubles conceiving. If you are under 35, have been a having regular unprotected sex for a year and have not been able to conceive, make an appointment with your doctor or a fertility specialist. If you are over 35, then start investigating the issue after six months of regular unprotected sex.
However, there are times when you should make that appointment with the specialist sooner. If you experience two or more miscarriages, have irregular periods, have painful periods, an unusual increase or a burning vaginal discharge, or if your partner experiencing a decrease in his sex drive, painful ejaculations or impotence, then make an appointment sooner. These are all indications of medical problems that need attention before a successful conception can occur. But because Secondary Infertility is often unrecognized as a problem, many couples find it hard to receive the proper support from their family and friends.  Some couples may even find that people criticize them as seeming ungrateful for the child or children they already have. You may find it necessary to sit down and discuss the issue with those closest to you, so that they can understand why you need their support so much right now. Treatment depends on diagnosis. If the woman has irregular ovulation, ovulation can be induced with fertility tablets such as Chlomiphene Citrate or injections with Gonadotrophins (fertility drugs) to restore regular, predictable ovulation. For damage to the fallopian tubes, surgery may be needed or In-Vitro Fertilization (IVF). The woman is given hormones to stimulate the ovaries to produce a large number of follicles. The follicles are emptied and the eggs collected with ultrasound guidance. The eggs can then be fertilized with the partner’s sperm and the resulting embryos are transferred into the uterus two to three days later, where, with luck, they will implant. A maximum of two to three embryos are transferred during a ‘fresh’ embryo transfer cycle, but any surplus embryos of good quality may be frozen for a subsequent attempt.
For minor sperm problems, the procedure of Intra-uterine Insemination (IUI) helps conception. A sperm sample is taken and prepared so that good quality sperm are retrieved. The insemination is carried out at the optimum time in the partner’s ovulation cycle. This treatment can be made more effective by gently stimulating the ovaries with hormones to ensure the woman releases two or three eggs with each ovulation. If he sperm count is very low or if only a few eggs can be retrieved at IVF, then the technique of Intra Cytoplasmic Sperm Injection (ICSI) can be used. With this treatment, the woman will undergo a conventional IVF cycle, but once the eggs have been collected, one sperm is injected directly into each egg to fertilize it. Even after a Vasectomy or failed reversal, when a man will obviously not be able to ejaculate sperm because the Vas Deferens has been blocked, it is still possible to collect the sperm.
This can be done surgically, either by taking them from the epididymis, or directly from the testes. The sperm can then be used with ICSI in an IVF cycle. Overall, the chances of conceiving for a couple with secondary infertility are quite good. The key thing is to consider assisted conception techniques sooner, rather than later. Don’t hang around hooping and waiting. While fertility problems can always put a strain on a relationship, Secondary Infertility can be especially stressful. The ways in which people deal with the situation can vary.
Communication can break down when one partner does not want to discuss the issue at all, causing the other to feel shut out. Whether or not treatment for the infertility should be pursued, and how much to spend can become other areas of contention for couples.
It may be beneficial to seek out therapy to help you and your partner deal with the emotions that secondary infertility brings. Joining a support group for people experiencing secondary infertility can help you realize that you’re not the only ones going through this difficult time. Support groups have been shown to be very effective in helping people cope during a difficult time. In addition to dealing with your own problems of infertility and your relationship, you will also need to address the issue with your child in an age-appropriate manner. Children are very receptive to the world around them, so it is unrealistic to think that your child will not notice the tense atmosphere at home.
Talk about your feelings and encourage your child to express herself on the issue. With proper support and guidance, you and your partner will be able to make the right choices for your family.

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